24 days of Christmas: Ye never see daylicht on Ne’erday (by Fran)

Fran Brady was born in Dundee and is a graduate of St Andrews University. After a varied career in the voluntary sector, she turned from charity management to creative writing. In five years, she has written three novels, a book of short stories, a children’s book and recently – to her surprise – some poetry.  She has three daughters, a stepson, six grandchildren, lots of pals of all ages – and a dog. She lives with her husband in a village in West Lothian

A Fife Mining Community 1954

New Year’s Eve, Hogmanay, was the time for free-range “first-footing”, an unpredictable affair with every house set up for a full- scale party. It was a lottery as to which ones would end up with crowds big enough to do justice to the groaning tables of food and drink. There might be a great party, a horrible fight, a great deal of vomiting or just a gaggle of maudlin mutterers and snorers. Or you might have very few people and be left eating black bun and shortbread for weeks. You just never knew. But every house must be prepared. It was unthinkable disgrace not to be provisioned as if for an army.

New Year’s Day was quite different, having a formal structure. It did not begin until late afternoon, since no-one had gone to bed until dawn once Hogmanay had been finally declared over. Whilst the men snored on, the women and children would be up just in time to catch the winter sunset. Ye never see daylicht on Ne’erday was considered a fitting accolade to a good Hogmanay.

Once the mess from the night before had been cleaned up, it was time to start preparing Ne’erday Denner. This was when as many of your extended family as you could squeeze round your table would be invited to share in Steak Pie and Trifle – the menu was the same in every house and was washed down by copious amounts of that well-known beverage, the hair o’ the dog.

The first guests would be encouraged to burst in on the foul-breathed snoring of the man of the house, dragging him out of bed, declaring:

That must hae been a richt skinfu’ ye had last nicht!Get yersel’ a wash an’ shave, man, an’ get yersel’ through fur yer Ne’erday denner!

Mid-evening, the party would begin. No false modesty was allowed: songs, recitations, even short dramatic sketches made up the programme, repeated year in, year out with almost no variation.

Apart from the returning war heroes, who had proudly brought back their rousing, regimental choruses, few people were ever allowed to introduce new material.

As more and more of the younger generation left to seek their fortune across the Atlantic or Down Under, a new poignancy had been added to the old emigrant laments and there was never a dry eye in the house when everyone joined in “It’s oh! But I’m longin’ for my ain folk. . .

Some better-off families might book a few minutes on the telephone to faraway sons and daughters and everyone would crowd round and shout to be heard, marvelling at the time difference.

The party would once again last well into the next day. Men starting at six o’clock on the early shift would fortify themselves with plates of stovies or tripe and onions and head straight from the party to do a seven hour shift down the pit.

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Fran’s post is the first in a series of posts over the Christmas period. Please feel free to comment on the excerpt from Fran’s latest book (and let us know if you buy it and read the whole thing!), and haste ye back for more guest bloggers who will be sharing over the next 24 days. You can find all the posts so far by clicking here.

BK’s 2011 in review…

It’s time for the obligatory ‘reflection on the past year’ post. I’ve been using this template for a few years now, taken from another blogger!

What, for you, was the high point of 2011? Were there any other highlights?

There have been a few high points. Firstly, hearing the news that the national organisation I work with was a registered charity. Getting to meet a couple more online friends so they are now ‘in real life’ friends. Living the rockstar dream by surprising my friend for her 40th birthday. Speaking at the women’s conference about healing after pregnancy loss. The Powerpoint in September where we were so packed out all our planning went out the window… And of course, the huge one: MEETING ALF!!

What, for you, was the low point of 2011?

Originally I had written about the first half of 2011. But in the last few days an event trumped all the challenges of this year when on Boxing Day I found out that one of my childhood friends had been found dead on Christmas Eve. We now know why his Mum could not reach him on Christmas Day, and although his death was not unexpected, it has been a huge shock for us all. My earliest memories are filled with our childhood games (namely Trevor & He-man), going to Edinburgh Zoo in Edinburgh and Ramboland in Aberdeen. This likely means starting 2012 by attending a funeral with close family friends in mourning.

Tell me some things you learned this year.

I got a big wake up call to how much of my life was tied up in trying to live up to church leaders and church members’ expectations. Leaving church was the best thing ever because I lost some of the religious side of me while I wasn’t an active member of a church over the summer, and now being back in a church I have a much better perspective. I feel much more ‘Laura Anne’ now than I have done in 4 years!

Who would be your “person of 2011″? It could be someone you know or a famous person who’s inspired you.

It’s a tough one to pick this year. But I think I’m going to choose Adam & Karen Owens. They really inspire me, and now I’m learning more about adoption and fostering in the UK – hoping it’s something I’ll be able to do in the future.

What was the best film you saw this year?

The King’s Speech.

That film deserved every single award it received. And I always did have a lot of respect for the Queen Mum!

Closely followed by Harry Potter & The Deathly Hallows – Part 2.

And what was the worst?

Hmm…it would have been Transformers: Dark Side of the Moon but a miscommunication meant that I ended up not seeing it. It seems I was saved from a terrible fate of a couple of hours of my life I would never have got back.

So it’s going to have to be Bridesmaids. It would have been a great film had it not been for the waaaay over the top scene in the Bridal shop.

What was the best book you read?

The Double Comfort Safari Club by Alexander McCall Smith & The King’s Speech by Mark Logue & Peter Conradi

What was the best thing you saw on TV?

Love on the Transplant List

What, for you, was the sporting highlight of 2011?

No question: Kohei Uchimura becoming the first male gymnast to win 3 consecutive world titles. His gymnastics is breathtakingly stunning, and I’m so looking forward to the Olympics next year.

What was the best album or song you heard in 2011? What song did you play most?

I think Adele’s ‘21‘ album.

Most played song is once again Albertine by Brooke Fraser

What are you looking forward to in 2012?

Singing at Powerpoint in the New Year. (I’ll be trying to find some better fitting earphones and remembering that long curly hair & in-ear monitors really don’t make a good combo)

Maybe meeting some more online friends ‘in real life’ (there are some plans in the making)…

I’m sure that work is going to be as much of a rollercoaster as the last 4 years have been.

The Olympics. I’m still very gutted that I didn’t get tickets for the Women’s All-Around artistic gymnastics final, because that would have been amazing to see. My new hope is catching the world championships when they come to Glasgow in 2015!

And all the exciting things that I’m not able to anticipate… Bring on 2012!
What has your 2011 looked like? 

24 days of Christmas: The Tamale Making Party (by Fiona)

 

Fiona is a Brit in Texas, working with husband in the field of animation and film, with their company Dancing Fish Productions. They have a young son and another baby on the way. They are currently juggling life as parents, working in a crazy, uncertain industry and living in a foreign country. They consider they are extremely fortunate to be loved by great family, friends and a great God.

“A What-making party?”

“A Tamale making party, come join us”

There are many things that are odd to me, a Geordie, Scottish, Northern Irish-sounding lass in Texas. Holiday season brings its own unique challenges, and each country, state, town around the world does it differently. The massive metroplex that is Dallas-Fort Worth is no different, with its 6.5 million people, 38% of whom are of Hispanic heritage. I consider this to be a great asset to the culture and make up of this great state, although vastly alien to my background and knowledge. I am fortunate to have amongst my friends a Texan of great Hispanic heritage, who graciously extended the above invitation to me. This would be a new experience, as you might guess, there are not many Tamale making parties, even in multicultural Edinburgh, our previous home.

Tamales are a very old, traditional corn-based food, filled with meat, cheese, veggies or chillies that are thought to go back to 8000-5000 BC, which were eaten by Ancient Mayans, Aztecs and Incas. Today they are eaten all over Central and South America as well in the US. They’re especially eaten over the Christmas/New Year period and I’m told that if you go into any Mexican families’ house between Dec 1st and Jan 6th, there’s sure to be a Tamale offered. A bit like mince pies in the UK. But with a bit more of a burny tongue.

But for me, this was more than just an invitation to find out how to make an interesting new food (which by the way, you make by the hundreds, hence why you need a party of people, and you boil or steam in a leaf wrapper which you discard when you eat it). As I found out, the actual making of them is deceptively simple looking but much harder to do well. Like most things, simple is usually the hardest thing to do.  And to me, this simple invitation has everything to do with the kindness given to strangers (me and my family), learning about new cultures to open up your mind and the extending of warmth and welcome that is beyond your means, with no thought of return.

Like many at this time of year, and in this economic climate, money is tight for us. We’re wondering how to pay the next bills. And so it is for this family that opened up their small home to the masses. But they do something very special that is often found amongst those who don’t have a lot: they give. Their time, energy, hospitality, and their resources. And what is simpler but harder to do?

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Fiona’s post is one in a series of posts over the Christmas period as many of my friends join me for another blog party which I hope you’ve all been enjoying!  Please feel free to comment on what Fiona has shared, and haste ye back for more guest bloggers who will be sharing over the next 24 days. You can find all the posts so far by clicking here.

24 days of Christmas: Where in the world? Christmas Edition no 2!

Another special edition of ‘Where in the World?‘. Some of my guest bloggers have sent me photos taken in places around the world during the Christmas season.

Question is… Where in the world were these photos taken? And by which of our guests?

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This post is one in a series of posts over the Christmas period as many of my friends join me for another blog party which I hope you’ve all been enjoying! Please haste ye back for more guest bloggers who will be sharing over the next 24 days. You can find all the posts so far by clicking here.

24 days of Christmas: Lost in translation (by Kamsin)

Kamsin Kaneko teaches English to unappreciative students in Tokyo, Japan.  Originally from the New Forest area of Hampshire, she has spent most of her adult life living overseas and has made Japan her home.  Christmas however just isn’t quite the same anywhere other than home. 

**Kamsin doesn’t know it, but the reason I purposely scheduled this post for today is because it is her birthday! Please take time to wish Kamsin a Happy Birthday too! **

Christmas – Lost in Translation

Christmas is not a holiday in Japan.  It is a day with no religious or cultural significance for most Japanese.  But, this doesn’t stop them from celebrating Christmas.  Kind of.  Japan pretty much imported all the sparkly bits of Christmas, the lights, decorations and Santa and then made up a whole new way to celebrate.

Most businesses put up Christmas decorations and many key locations throughout Tokyo have Christmas “illuminations” (lights to you and me).  Blue and white lights seem to be very popular.  It is rare to see lights in the shape of sleighs, father christmas or snowmen.  Mostly they are just pretty lights.  They are some beautiful trees too.  Superficially it seems like Christmas is being celebrated in familiar ways.

But if you ask people what they do for Christmas it all starts to feel a little less familiar.  In the weeks before Christmas I asked my students (aged 19-22) what they will do.  Many were holding drinking parties with friends, some would be eating chicken and cake (not quite what you’re imagining, we’ll get to that in a minute) with their family, and those lucky enough to have a boyfriend or girlfriend were headed to some popular date spot to enjoy the romance of the illuminations.

Christmas is considered a night for romance.  Although it is also “celebrated” with friends and family.  Christmas Eve is probably the biggest date night of the year.  Personally, I blame Mariah Carey (All I want for Christmas is You) and Wham! (Last Christmas) for this.  Both of these songs are horribly popular.  Christmas is not a holiday and if it falls on a weekday most people will be at school or work.  If you don’t have a big date then it’s pretty much just a regular day.

Chicken (Kentucky Fried) and Christmas cake (a sponge covered in whipped cream and strawberries) are the food of choice.  People order both months in advance.  It seems KFC ran a very successful advertising campaign back in the 70’s or 80’s and convinced the whole of Japan that KFC is the authentic taste of Christmas.  No idea where the strawberry shortcake came from, I guess it just suits Japanese palates.

All of which leaves me with the feeling that any genuine Christmas cheer got lost in translation.  It’s Christmas, but not quite.  I try to find my own ways to make Christmas feel special but it’s never quite the same.

P.S. New Year is the big festival in Japan more comparable to Christmas.  People celebrate with special foods, gather with their families, and children receive gifts of money.  People also exchange New Year’s cards, which in a display of Japanese efficiency, are all collected by Japan Post in the weeks before the year ends, and then delivered all in one go on January 1st.

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Kamsin’s post is one in a series of posts over the Christmas period as many of my friends join me for another blog party which I hope you’ve all been enjoying!  Please haste ye back for more guest bloggers who will be sharing over the next 24 days. You can find all the posts so far by clicking here.

24 days of Christmas: The Gift (by Tony)

Tony Maude is a husband, sometime stand-in Dad, pastor, preacher, trainee proof-reader, blogger and novice poet. In a former life he was a research scientist. Last Christmas he was one of “Santa’s little helpers”, delivering parcels through knee-deep snow in sub-zero temperatures.

I admit it. I’m a guest-post virgin. The cursor flashes before my eyes, hungry for words to fill the blank space. What should I write about? What voice should I use? Is it OK to just be me, to write my way, when this is destined to appear in someone else’s space? What gift can I give? And there is my prompt – “The Gift” – given to me at a Writers’ Group meeting the other day.

The Gift

The Gift is given to us with

 No paper smooth, no ribbon tied,

His glory to contain,

But only flesh and bone like ours,

Birthed through his mother’s pain.

The Gift is given to us with

No palace home, no royal throne

His splendour there unfurled.

But secretly, in poverty

He bursts into this world.

The Gift is given to us with

No honoured place ‘neath baubled tree,

To rest his new-born head.

A much-used, straw-filled cattle trough

Becomes his lowly bed

The Gift is given to us with

No herald swift, no fanfare loud

To announce his holy birth.

Humble shepherds on windswept hill,

Alone were told his worth.

The Gift is given to us still,

Glad tidings of great joy for all,

If we would just believe.

Immanuel, the Holy child

Still waits to be received.

Tony Maude - 09/12/2011 

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Tony’s poem is part of a series of posts over the Christmas period. Please feel free to comment on what Tony has shared, and haste ye back for more guest bloggers who will be sharing over the next 24 days. You can find all the posts so far by clicking here.

24 days of Christmas: Santa-mas

Yes, I am someone who believes in God and yes, I do love the nativity story because I very biasedly think it’s brilliant that Jesus came to earth via an unplanned pregnancy under the stigma of illegitimacy and poverty. But I also know like Hannah said, that ‘Christmas’ is not really a Christian festival. It’s a mish mash of all sorts of things celebrating Jesus, the star the wise men followed and the gifts given, Saint Nicolas, Winter Solstice and all the rest.

My thoughts on Christmas? I love that friends of mine who don’t necessarily share my beliefs can still enjoy Nativity plays like Rebecca, and my friend Fi, a teacher, who was very excited to tell me via skype that she was getting to be Mary in her school’s nativity play (she feels it’s redemption after she didn’t get a part in the nativity when she was in primary school). I think that the whole Santa thing is fun. I love being able to play make-believe. I knew from a young age the truth about Santa, but it was so much fun to shout up chimneys and giggle at how Santa’s writing was remarkably like my Dad’s/Nana’s/Mum’s…! I’m almost convinced that I really did hear those jingling reindeer bells one Christmas Eve. Never once as a child did I take for granted the gifts I received, and I also loved using my pocket money to buy gifts for my family and seeing them open them on Christmas Day. Apart from the fact, the whole elf-vision thing comes in really handy when your younger sibling is misbehaving (read: whining) in a shopping centre. ;)

How do I celebrate Christmas? Tonight I’ll most likely be trying to make sure Elastatoddler & Mr Teapot don’t set my friend’s church on fire during a Christingle Service (a religious ritual I’m still confused by), all day long I’ll be following Santa’s progress round the world on the NORAD satellite, going to the Midnight Service with my Mum to sing our favourite Christmas hymns by candlelight, and when we get home, my Mum (usually giggly and hyper) will insist that we need to get to  bed otherwise Santa won’t come.

I’ll be making koala friendly mulled wine to wash down the White Christmas Slice I made the other night balanced out by clementines, and tomorrow morning we’ll open gifts one at a time. I might have Tim Minchin’s White Wine in the Sun on in the background, a bit of Hillsong’s recording of Joy to the World or Weatherfolk’s O Come All Ye Faithful and a bit of Stevie Wonder too. No doubt we’ll watch a film after eating yummy food my Mum makes, and once we have some space have a wee drop of Chocolate Berry Panettone.

Whatever you do today and tomorrow, I hope you have fun. And if you need some inspiration, well… here you go:


Mark & Emily Payne’s reading of A Night Before Christmas


Connor McCullough & friends reading of A Night Before Christmas

Paula Boardman, David Goodwin & Diane Goodwin’s reading of an Aussie Night Before Christmas


Me & Miss S’s reading of the Nativity Story from a lamb’s point of view

Merry Christmas Everyone!

And remember…like Bryony says…there’s always time for a bow. FINGER!

What are your favourite Christmas traditions?

24 days of Christmas: O Come All Ye Faithful (by The Weatherfolk)

Ken & Casey Weatherford are better known as The Weatherfolk, an acoustic duo combining blues, gospel and folk music. Originally from the USA they are currently living in Edinburgh, Scotland working with the Edinburgh & Forth Circuit of the Methodist Church. 

We, along with our friend Andy the Cellist, have recorded an arrangement of the classic carol “O Come, All Ye Faithful,” and we’re here to deliver it through your virtual chimney just in time for Christmas.

Click on the cover art to listen, and enter your information for a free download.

And as the song pipes through cars and computers and earbuds, we’ll find joy in knowing that we’re all humming along together that resounding refrain:

O come let us adore Him
O come let us adore Him
O come let us adore Him
Christ the Lord.

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Ken & Casey’s song is part of a series of posts over the Christmas period as many of my friends join me for another blog party which I hope you’ve all been enjoying! Please feel free to comment on the recipe and I’d love to hear from you if you try it out. Please haste ye back for more guest bloggers who will be sharing over the next 24 days. You can find all the posts so far by clicking here.

24 days of Christmas: Chocolate Berry Panettone (by Laura Anne)

Laura Anne is the real name of the blogger sometimes known as ‘BrunetteKoala’ who blogs here at Learning from Sophie. Over the last year she’s been trying out new recipes in a bid to get better at baking and cooking. She loves chatting, meeting her blog & twitter friends ‘in real life’, Jesus, cupcakes and Santa. 

Chocolate Berry Panettone

For the first time last year, I got to contribute to Christmas dinner. This was a BIG deal since usually no one except my mother is allowed to be in the kitchen on Christmas Day. Quite a bit of planning was involved in choosing a dessert that would be liked by all the family. Since my smallgroup have enjoyed Pandoro with homemade Chocolate fudge sauce several times, this was what I made for Christmas Day last year. This should serve 8 people!

To make your Chocolate fudge icing…

3 oz dark chocolate (for this I used Green & Black’s Maya Gold)

3oz milk

2 oz caster sugar

1 oz unsalted butter

Method: Put milk & sugar in a saucepan and bring to the boil, then turn heat down slightly and stir for 5 full minutes. Take saucepan off the heat and add butter & chocolate, then stir until melted. Place in a bowl or jug and allow to cool.

And now to create your Chocolate berry panettone…

500g chocolate chip panettone

400g berries

300 ml whipping cream

1-2 tbsp caster sugar

Method:

Slice your panettone into layers.

Set some of your berries aside for garnishing the top of the panettone.

Whisk your whipping cream and sugar together in a mixing bowl until it is stiffened. Then add your berries folding them into the whipped cream.

Spoon the berry cream onto the bottom layer of the panettone, then add another layer of panettone and repeat until you have a layer of berry cream between each panettone layer.

Add the chocolate fudge icing to the top of the panettone stack and garnish with your berries that you set aside.

Place in the freezer for 4 hours.

Remove above 10-15 minutes before serving.

It should be noted, that because of the lack of freezer space, we weren’t able to do these last couple of steps, and had to settle for putting it in the fridge instead. In fact we might just have served it pretty much straight away. And I’m terrible at cutting things equally too. As a result, our panettone didn’t look quite so picture perfect – but it still tasted AMAZING. :)

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This post is one in a series of posts over the Christmas period as many of my friends join me for another blog party which I hope you’ve all been enjoying! Please feel free to comment on the recipe and I’d love to hear from you if you try it out. Please haste ye back for more guest bloggers who will be sharing over the next 24 days. You can find all the posts so far by clicking here.

24 days of Christmas: All I want for Christmas is… (by Lori)

 

Lori Wilhite serves alongside her husband, Jud who is the Senior Pastor at Central Christian Church in Las Vegas. They have two kids Emma and Ethan, and the world’s cutest bulldog, Roxy. She loves Starbucks chai tea lattes and is slightly Jane Austen obsessed. Lori is the founder of Leading and Loving It: Connecting, Encouraging, and Equipping Pastors’ Wives and Women in Ministry. 

All I Want For Christmas is… a bowling ball

I remember running into our living room, wearing flannel pajamas with some major bed-head happening.

I rounded the corner, excited to see what was under the tree …

A bowling ball.

My parents had gotten me a bowling ball.

A marbleized-purple bowling ball.

Now, to fully understand the incredibly irony of me and a bowling ball, a little description is necessary:

1. I’m the girl who wears heels to walk to pick up my kids at school.

2. Feet freak me out. Seriously. The thought of me putting on someone else’s sweaty bowling shoes is … well … kind of laughable.

3. I don’t have an athletic bone in my body. Not a one. I fall on a daily basis. I run into random objects often. And have broken my ankle by running … just running.

4. To say I have incredibly limited upper body strength is an understatement.

So, here I was … my little sting-bean arms jutting out of my PJs … staring at that purple bowling ball under the tree.

And I loved it.

Maybe it was of all of the excitement of Christmas morning. Maybe it was because I loved my crazy parents. Maybe it is because you could give me a gum wrapper and if you said it made you think of me, I’d love it.

Maybe it is because, in the end, the relationships are far, far more important than the gifts under the tree … or the not-so-perfect holiday meal … or Christmas morning chaos.

In the midst of all the hustle and bustle, stress and anxiety, we can tend to overlook the most important pieces of the holiday … really the most important pieces of everyday. I need to fight to make sure that my relationships … with Jesus, my husband, my 2 kids, our families, and our friends … don’t get swept up in the Christmas craziness. But instead, let those relationships trump all of the challenges, stress, anxiety, and distraction of the season.

So, this year when my kiddos come running down the stairs and open their version of the purple bowling ball, I’ll remind them how much they love me despite the lame gift and how much better our family is than that disappointing bowling ball.

No matter what is under your tree this year, really enjoy the greater gifts that wouldn’t fit under there anyway.

Merry Christmas.

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Lori’s post is part of a series of posts over the Christmas period. Please feel free to comment on what Lori has shared, and haste ye back for more guest bloggers who will be sharing over the next 24 days. You can find all the posts so far by clicking here.